>>1743447
No. That's how it always works, and I've explained why.
Let me try to give a better explanation.
Think about the pre-historic semi-monogamous human society, where our psychology formed.
So, males and females form more or less stable pairs. Some don't, but some screw around. Now if the female screws around and gets pregnant, the male is going to raise someone else's child, and not pass on his genes. Looks like a very valid reason for butthurt to me.
If on the other hand, the mate screws around and gets someone pregnant, there is really no reason for the female to be upset, as long as the male would stay with her, and not the other women, right?
That's the reason why screwing around is almost socially acceptable for males, but not for females.
So, tl'dr. As long as you convince the female that you are still staying with here, there is no reason for her to be upset at all. And there is no reason to lie if you are not going to stay, right? So, just lie!
Or course, we are no longer the "pre-historic humans", and we've acquired some rituals and bullshit that would get females to butthurt over some innocent screwing that does not actually hurt them at all. But it's never nearly as deep as a true, instinctual butthurt of an abandoned female, or a cuckold.